My picture looks like yours...when my wife gets home I'll borrow her camera. I wrote more info below while you were posting, and I think the clearance is ok. Nonetheless, rounding down that lip seems like a good idea, because even if the extractor works fine it could prevent the 1/2000 time it slips a little... Although I don't entirely see why a round shouldn't eject ok right off of that rear lip...maybe ruger should just make the ejector be an extension off the top of the mag and solve the problem altogether that way. (I put the alibi behind me during the match, but as you can tell I'm a little consumed now with avoiding it again.)
Here is what I observed about the extractor grip:
I found a way to grip the pistol better so I could slowly pull back the slide and see what happens.
1. Most of the time the extractor has a nice grip on the casing and when it does so, it seems to me that the casing easily clears the rear lips, despite my observations about the measurements before. It may be closer than spec, but it still seems like enough.
The grip on the casing is such that I can still knock it out of alignment by giving it a press with the finger, but a light touch won't affect it. I can slide the casing right back into the barrel the grip is that good.
2. Sometimes though, as I pull the bolt back the casing will immediately nose downwards. This is the same casing that previously the extractor had a good grip on. This casing would still "eject" when I pulled back on the bolt hard, but once the nose is down obviously it is going to touch the top of the magazine and maybe a next round if the mag weren't empty. In this case even if my mag were dropped down slightly, I still think the nose of the casing would scrape along the top of it. The extractor still has a hold on the casing, but somehow not tight enough that the casing looses its "erection"

such that it could be slid right back in the barrel by releasing the bolt.

Is this normal, or should I be suspicious of the extractor and its plunger assembly? Also, I had a weird CCI casing that the extractor simply couldn't grab if I pulled slowly. I pulled hard and it ejected, but now I can't find it on the floor to inspect it more carefully. The other spent casings are all federal economy from walmart.
3. Also, it takes what I would consider a firmer pull on the bolt than what I would think to get a casing to "pop" away. I should also mention my casings are ejecting forward, at say 2'oclock. If I pull the bolt back slower, the casing is simply pushed off the ejector with no apparent rise at all and comes to rest on top of the mag. I guess this is normal, sort of, can't exactly explain but doesn't seem right. I guess I would think the ejector would still direct the round away, which makes me think my ejector is not angled right, but maybe I'm crazy. It does make me think that possibly weak rounds are the culprit by not cycling the bolt hard enough, possibly combined with a bad extractor grip to create a "perfect storm" for a stove pipe.
It goes without saying, but thanks for all your help with this.